.. Was reading a frenz blog .. he had posted bot "life without frenz is hell" .. suddenly i remembered s'thing i had read way back ..
there was this malayalam song s'one has translated and posted in some article ..
this is how it goes ..

'Sea gulls and sea waves met
Sea gulls flew away
Sea waves went back
So too have we met, so too shall we part'

s'thing bot the song impressed me .. probably the truth in it or maybe, itz jus too gud .. i dunno .. but v meet so many ppl in our life and then v jus lose touch at some point as each goes on with his/her life and make new frenz .. only the close ones remain .. sad fact of life .. who told lifez fair !!!
like, at work, when u get into a new proj, v get a whole set of new teamies .. if itz a dev proj and fixed bid,then t'll b for six or seven months max ... v work together, laugh together, hang out in the cafeteria as a gang, help out each other, go out for treats and share lots of gud and bad moments in the proj span .. once that proj is over, all r put in different projs and each go in their own ways ... u cal often during the first few weeks, then the cals reduce .. u msg .. u mail .. u chat .. and then after a while, everyting stops except for the occasional mails or cals or b'day wishes ... all of us get caught in our daily lives ... so finally, all that are left are memories .. nostalgic .. neverthless, itz gonna b jus memories ..
when i finished school, i vowed to myself i'll stay in touch with everyone in my class ... now itz jus a handful of 'em that 'm in touch with, other than my best pals, that is .. the same story continued in college ... all of us promised to ourselves v'll mail everyday, cal once in a week and stuff like that .. now 'm not even sure how many of us r in touch .. thanks to our group mails and orkut, atleast v get to know when s'one gets married or goes abroad or shifts companies ... otherwise i dont think i wud ve had any news bot most of my classmates ... :)
the other day, went for my best pal's marriage .. and after roughly more than six and half yrs, all five of us (my gang in school) met together ... it felt toooo gud to b true .. after the marriage, the rest four of us visited school and met all our teachers .. t'was one of those best days of my life ... the proud happiness in our teacher's eyes when they heard v wre all working with top s/w firms, was s'thing which gave a whole new meaning to our lives ... t'was the best reward v could ve got ... and they too .. some of 'em had taught us when v wre in pre-school .. :)) v visited most of our ol' hang-outs, in the li'l (too li'l) time v had .. had tears in my eyes and more, in my heart when the time to depart came ...
such memories hold the whole meaning to our lives .... and frenz, are the biggest part of those memories ... :) hey pals out there .. tanx for being there .. and for fillin up some space - big or small - in my book of memories ... and these make me feel that i ve really lived my life and not jus passed it .. and makes my heart free of regrets ... :)))) and the fact that there are still more memories to be treasured sets me goin; makes me look forward to every tmw, each min infact ... live ur lives too ppl ... itz after all one life that v ve got ... :))) njoy .. freak out .. lifez not alwayz THAT unfair .. ;)